I’m not so sure I like the idea of it being July already but it is time for the Ultimate Coffee Date with Coco, Deb and Lynda so pull up a chair and I’ll get you a cup.
If we were having coffee, I’d most likely lose my sh!% because we had to lay one of our dogs to rest yesterday. Remy was 16+ years old and saying good-bye was a long time coming but still it’s so, so hard.
All week I rode the swells of sadness, knowing what Friday would bring. I prayed he’d go on his own. We’ve had our two Bichons since before the kids were born. They were our first babies and they’ve never been apart from each other. Saying goodbye to Remy is like letting go to a link to the past. He was here when we moved into this house, here when the kids were born. So many memories. Of course time goes on and we’ll move ahead, but now there’s such a void. So much emotion.
If we were having coffee I’d tell you we’re headed to North Carolina where we’ll celebrate the holiday as well as the birthdays of the Caveman and his twin brother. It will be good to get away although I am hoping my MIL is on good behavior as I am feeling emotionally fragile and am not up for any of her antics.
If we were having coffee I’d tell you it’s time to start training for my fall marathon, the Indy Monumental. I’d tell you I don’t feel ready, at all, to do that and I worry I’ll be woefully undertrained for RnRChi in a couple weeks.
What would you tell me over coffee? Did you enter my giveaway?
I’m so very sorry about your pious pup. They are a huge part of our lives and when they are gone it takes time to adjust. Hugs to you and your family. Enjoy NC this weekend.
Marcia I am so sorry to hear of the passing of Remy. If we were having coffee, I’d give you the biggest hug and cry with you. Losing a pet freaking sucks. 🙁 I’m thinking of you, friend.
Oh Marcia I am so sorry! Having just lost a pet I know how very, very hard it is. I’m thinking of you and sending you lots of hugs. I hope your MIL behaves!
I’m so sorry about Remy. That’s a long time to have a dog, and even though I’m sure you knew it was coming, it’s still hard. Those furry friends sure weave themselves into our hearts, don’t they?
Hang tough this weekend. Let’s do lunch when you get back!
oh Marcia so sorry about Remy. Sounds like he was a big part of your families’ lives. hugs and hopefully your weekend won’t be too stressful. Marathon training already? Wow. Look forward to hearing more.Thanks for joining us today
Oh Marcia I am so sorry for the loss of Remy! We had a lab that was 16.5 when we loss her. Just remember that you gave him the best life possible!
I hope your family finds joy in your trip to NC. Be safe!
My heart breaks for you. I am so very sorry.
I hope you are able to enjoy your weekend away! xo
I’m so, so sorry. It is incredibly hard. I hope your trip helps distract you, and I really hope MIL doesn’t pour any salt on your wounds.
I’m so sorry for your loss. Sending you lots of hugs. I hope your MIL is on her best behavior.
I’m so sorry, my friend. Dogs bring such joy to our lives. I bet you have so many wonderful stories about Remy. I give you permission to take out your frustrations on your MIL. ?
Marcia, I’m so sorry for your loss! While nothing can replace what Remy meant to you and your family, I hope that some of your upcoming activities help you to keep moving forward, one day at a time. You’re in my thoughts and prayers. #hug.
Oh, I’m so sorry about Remy. This is exactly why I didn’t want to get a dog…mine is 15 and I know our time is limited. But the past 14 years with her have been good.
Good luck with the family this weekend–I hope you can have some fun 🙂
It is hard, Marcia, it always is. I had so much less time, but I still miss him so much, my little velcro dog. Even if life is far easier without him, it’s just that little bit sadder. And it always saddens me to see so many others losing their companions, too.
I hope your MIL behaves. Mine is not an animal person (my parents are, though), even though she’s had dogs, and she truly just doesn’t get it. Which is funny because Mr. Judy really loves his dogs. Even my own parents were tactless at times, like when “well, you knew this day was coming” & yeah, I did, but could you just say you’re sorry? Geez!
I’m so sorry about Remy :(. Always so hard.
Wondered if you were in town this weekend; was going to get a text thread going about Indy …. thoughts, hotels, etc. Had looked briefly at hotels and there’s a couple good deals through the race website, but you have to commit to pay now….ugh, not sure. Let’s chat when you get back.
Big, big hugs my dear friend!!
So sorry about your dog. My parents had to put down their dog who they had for 16 years last summer. I hope that you have a good trip and can enjoy yourself!
I am so sorry to hear about Remy! They are such a big part of any family. Big hugs to you! Enjoy your weekend, I hope it is restful!
I am so sorry about Remy. Pets are family and losing them is so tough.
I’m so sorry about Remy. It’s so hard to lose a much-loved member of the family.
Sorry about your dog. They are such an important part of the family.
I am very sorry to hear about your pet. 🙁 I understand how they’re also a part of the family. Have a great time in NC!!
I’m so sorry about Remy 🙁 Huge hugs to you 🙁 I hope your trip is the getaway you need and provides some peace and calm… and not too much MiL stress 🙁
The two of them look very dear. I’m so sorry to hear about your loss. When your fur baby has been there for your children’s whole lives (even before) it’s hard to even imagine them being gone.
Awww I am so sorry Marica 🙁 That is such a big loss and always a hard choice when you have to take them in. Hugs to you. I am so sorry for you and the whole family.
I just saw this now, I am so sorry Marcia ! Big hugs for you!